loverofbooks

There comes a time when you have to disappoint people you thought was supposed to accept and love you, with no stipulation. But their disappointment becomes your salvation as you are finally able to overcome you own disappointment in yourself. I’ve learned that when people put a stipulation on love and acceptance it’s not real. People don’t get to choose what part of someone they get to love, you either love the whole person, or don’t. There comes a time when you let people go, so you can grow.

I've seen them all, from the ugly to the beautiful. When I was younger, I watched my parent's marriage combust into smithereens. I am sure they had their good years together (I don't remember any) but the divorce was much cleaner then the marriage.  I watch my aunt who loves her husband more each day-even after 20 years, deployments and adoptions later. I observe my cousins boyfriend cheat on her time after time-but it's like a force filled that pulls them back together. They call it "fate", I just call it foolishness. I may appear ignorant in the love world, and perhaps I am (Never been kissed, much less been in an actual relationship). But

It amazes me how music can capture everything around us. From the memories we have made. To the dreams and hopes we have for the future.